For most of us, marriage is a not just a paper work; it’s a series of vows that you promise to keep throughout your life. Marriage is a sacred act that bounds 2 people together for the rest of their lives. Though, however, some of us opt for the option of cheating. These people have no regard for their partner and they have no concern for how this act of cheating will shatter the other person, inside out.
Cheating is horrible act that not only kills the other person from the inside but it also destroys the trusting ability of that person. Someone who has been cheated on, can never trust anyone to full extent ever again.
So frustrated of getting cheated upon, a man whose wife was cheating on him with another married man, decided to let the wife of this man know about her being cheated on.
This man goes to the home of the guy with whom his wife was cheating him, he knocks on the door, wife of that person comes to the door and he asks a very simple yet epic question. He says, ‘do you have a vagina?’ The wife, outrageous, slams the door and goes inside. The same thing happened again next day. The wife again slams the door. This time the woman ended up telling her husband who then plans to stay home the following day, incase this man comes again. So the third day, the man again comes with the same question. This time, the wife got furious and in anger, answered him that she does have a vagina. The man then simply asks her to request her husband to use her vagina instead of his wife’s vagina and left.
Cheating is a horrible act that destroys families, relationships for the rest of their lives. This not only affects the two parties involved but if, there are children, they suffer a lot. This future gets affected by this act. This acts a traumatic experience of their life when their parents fight or even get divorced because of this.
The leading cause of divorce is cheating. Couples have tolerance for almost anything but this one act that makes them feel incompetent and unworthy. This shatters this confidence in themselves and the people around them. Yet people do opt for this option simply because they get bored of a single person or worse.
For the women’s case, the most common reason for cheating is being unvalued. Unlike guys, women rarely cheat for sex, it’s the emotional bond that they really crave for and if not available, they look for it somewhere else.
Whatever the reason may be for cheating, it is simply an unjustifiable act that no man or woman is allowed to. It’s a disgrace to all the sacred vows of marriage and the beautiful bond between man and woman.