Getting dumped can be seriously traumatic for some guys. The feelings of not being good enough or less intriguing or less appealing can really kill someone from the inside.
While we hope no guy has to go through this, we collected 9 most common reasons for girls to dump one guy for the other so guys, if you want to keep your girl and your confidence in yourself, you might want to check these out.
Are you honest with you girl at all times?
Honesty is the foundation of a healthy relationship so ask yourself, if you really are honest with your partner. Do you keep some part of the truth uncovered? Or do you keep entire things from her so she never finds out? Well, if you do any of this stuff, you need to be careful because once she finds out, she won’t stay.
She’s a human with as many human problems.
We often talk about girls being good listeners and if a girl doesn’t listen to her partner’s problems, she’s criticized. But have you ever wondered the other way round? Have you ever wondered about the problems she might be facing and would love it if you to listen?
She definitely would be having problems and like anyone else, she needs to be listened to as well so if you don’t already, start supporting her in her problems.
Are you too possessive?
Possessiveness is something that if is totally absent in a relationship, the love seems absent and if there’s too much of it, it makes the other person feel caged. The silver lining is only known with time, giving your partner the space that she needs while making her feel loved and needed at the same time. Too much of it can really kill your relationship and she won’t think twice before leaving you for another man that offers her more freedom.
Fluctuations in mood.
Like women, men have mood swings too. And in today’s era, women do understand that. Your girl will be considerate about it but like anything else, there’s a limit until which she will bear your mood swings. If your mood swings become your habit then you might want to remind yourself that she is not bound to bear your mood swings and she’s only doing it because she wants to be there for you but if it starts to happen daily, she won’t have a reason to stay with you and not a real ‘man’.
Are you serious all the time?
Are you serious all the time? You ever get comments like, ‘you’re a robot’? Even if you don’t, if you are the serious type, you might be the ‘robot’ and no girl wants to be with a robot. Being serious and calm is good as part of your nature but, when you’re with her, you need to be bit jolly and romantic to let her know she’s different and more importantly, to give her a good time.
None of us appreciates criticism. We do whine about our friends not pointing out our mistakes but the truth is, none of us wants that to happen. Likewise, no girl wants to be criticized; especially not by someone who she expects to find her perfect. So if you don’t appreciate your woman, don’t compliment her from time to time and most importantly, you don’t make her feel loved then there’s a good chance she’ll leave you for someone who makes her feel loved.
Giving her time
If you’re the kind of person who’s always about work and office then your relationship is in trouble. As a woman, your partner has a right to demand time and if you can’t make time for her, where your complete attention will be focused on her only, then it won’t be unfair if she leaves you.
Is she’s bored?
Any relationship is sparky and fun at the start but as time passes by, the relationship starts to lose its charm. So if you want to keep your relationship interesting, what you can do is you can surprise your woman from time to time, play games with her and go on trips with her. These things prevent the relationship from being a boring relationship.
The emotional bond
Other than the physical bond, there’s the emotional bond which is way more important than the physical bond. Therefore, you need to develop this bond as often as possible. If you don’t talk about your personal life, your goals, your childhood and whatever personal stuff there is that makes her feel that you trust her, then she might think you don’t want her in life.